I’m sure you’ve probably heard the expression, “Don’t sweat the small stuff… and it’s all small stuff.” This is actually the title of a book by Richard Carlson. He’s dead now. I used to think this was at best good advice and at worst harmless drivel. It seems reasonable: Don’t get worked up over every little thing, and most things aren’t that big of a deal. The less attention you give to things that “don’t matter”, the more bandwidth you’ll have to be happy, right?